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Holiday Food Temptation Vs. The Grind

AMP

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Holidays are the real test. Food everywhere. Desserts you didn’t ask for. Plates getting handed to you like it’s a legal obligation. And the classic line “It’s just one day, live a little.”
Here’s the thing most people don’t understand, it’s never just one day. It’s the mindset behind it.
Family and friends don’t mean harm. They’re living normal lives with normal priorities. Food is celebration. Food is comfort. Food is tradition. For us, food is structure. It’s fuel. It’s part of the job.

When you’re enhanced and actually serious about bodybuilding, the commitment is different. Training doesn’t pause for holidays. Diet doesn’t magically stop counting because there’s a turkey involved. You don’t get progress by turning discipline on and off when it’s convenient.
What makes this harder isn’t the food itself. It’s being the odd one out. You’re saying no while everyone else is saying yes. You’re bringing your own meals while people joke about it. You’re weighing food while they’re eyeballing seconds. And eventually you realize this path requires being okay with not being understood. And honestly, that’s fine.

Not everyone is supposed to get it. If they did, more people would be in shape. This lifestyle asks for delayed gratification, routine over comfort, and consistency when nobody is watching. That’s not normal behavior, and it’s not meant to be.
You don’t skip holidays. You just move through them with intention. You eat your meals. You enjoy the time, not the plates. And you leave knowing you stayed aligned with your goals while everyone else hits the reset button in January. That’s the difference. Different priorities. Different outcomes.

How do you handle holiday meals without blowing your diet?
Do you bring your own food or adjust macros?
Have family or friends ever made comments that tested your discipline?
Do you think this lifestyle requires being okay with standing alone sometimes?
 
I’m grateful at times like these that my significant other is also a bodybuilder and we bring our own food places, or don’t go bc we don’t want to deal with people bothering us for not eating shit.
 
Definitely understand that! I do that as well at times but shift on strictness depending on my current goals 💪
I’ll say though it mentally your Going to beat yourself up over eating the food don’t do it
 
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I’m grateful at times like these that my significant other is also a bodybuilder and we bring our own food places, or don’t go bc we don’t want to deal with people bothering us for not eating shit.
Man that's awesome! Lately I've been feeling that much way when having to go to family gatherings always having to hear something from them , they don't understand I can also have fun without having to eat bad
 
Bingo ! That's the problem that I encounter always hard on myself when I fall into temptation unfortunately
Forgive yourself has that the best thing one can do when they think they make mistakes
 
This is why we bulk during the food centered holidays 😉. I make sure I get my protein in first, then enjoy the rest as it comes. I don’t let one day get in the way of weeks/months of progress. But I can see how it would affect things if you were planning to compete or in prep!
 
Man that's awesome! Lately I've been feeling that much way when having to go to family gatherings always having to hear something from them , they don't understand I can also have fun without having to eat bad
Or they can’t understand that I can have an absolute blast without drinking alcohol!

It gets old when ppl are constantly commenting on your food or lifestyle, but it’s so nice when find friends or family that understand.

I was recently at a friends house, and a mutual friend is an ultra marathon runner, I had brought my own food and a guy was bugging me about it. The ultra guy immediately said you don’t have to understand it, but you should respect his commitment to the path he’s on. And it was like HEYYYYY! Yeahhh!! You get it!
 
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