Personally, if I lived in an apartment complex id get a PO Box, single residence I’d get it to my house.
UPS, and other mailbox stores are not protected as well as say USPS. They are subject to local law enforcement and such, where as USPS is not, does shit get mis delivered? Yes, that’s why if I lived in an apartment building I’d get a PO box, more shit goes missing or gets in wrong boxes in those places.
That’s why it’s important to know your mailman, ask them how their day is going if you see them, Christmas card with a gift, make your name stick out. If you are unlucky enough to get on a route where you get a lot of different mailmen, make sure your name is inside your mailbox, it does help, and if all else fails, remember to never say shit, ever, there’s a good defense to not knowing what’s in a package, but people talk.