Home improvement weekend got to see some smokers

[John]

Thanks, and I’m sure we will, especially my dad, he not a drunk by any means, however hes always the drunkest one at gatherings

 

[Bigmurph6]

He has a good time nothing wrong with that I actually think it’s great

 

[JB_rD81]

Picked up a bone in rib-eye and an 8 oz tenderloin fillet too

 

[Bigmurph6]

Sounds so good soon enough I will be there

 

[JB_rD81]

Someday I think it would be cool to have a brick lined in ground pit, so I can do a whole hog. I have a bunch of family that lives in and around Austin Tx, and hands down nothing comes close to Salt Lick BBQ, cooked in a big in ground pit… it’s AMAZING

 

[Bigmurph6]

I have been to a party were the hog was cooked in a hole they use green leaf to insulate it and it was amazing pork I was blown away

 

[John]

It is most the time,but he finishes his own stuff, drinks others, talks loud as fuck, and wont shut up,I dont handle that loud obnoxious shit that well

 

[Bigmurph6]

Im the same way but I usually stay where I feel comfortable during situations like that I just remove myself if needed and I let everyone do them but you know I understand

 

[John]

And he lost his insurance, and was a trt patient, brings it up all the time, but wont let me help him out with that situation cause hes scared to pin, if you continue to bitch about a situation but dont want help from the person you complaining to, then you should probably shut your gumsack

 

[Bigmurph6]

He might want to go back to the doctor and not do it off book.
Everyone looks at things differently

My wife won’t take any advice from me on diet yet were here all day. I have given up trying to help someone who doesn’t want it then it just becomes a problem. I figured if she wants help one day she will ask

 

[John]

Yes as I’ve suggested to him, but no he will complain but not really be proactive about it,I’m not like him in most ways, and I struggle with trying to show him empathy when he doesn’t make a effort to fix the problem

 

[Bigmurph6]

You don’t have to show empathy if you have offered help and it was refused. I understand the want to help you know im a helper I like to help people and when I can’t its hard but its like the saying if you love something let it go if it comes back its yours I don’t believe that your dad is leaving because of his TRT honestly

 

[Poppy]

My wife won’t take any advice from me on diet

Same here. I just shut up and move along

 

[John]

Your right, and I really do wish i could help him, i even offered to pin his glutes or dents for him, ha ha awkward… I think his trt doc was good, my dad went from the AndroGel to the 3-4 times a year pellets in his ass cheek,which seemed to work great

 

[Bigmurph6]

Im interested in pellets but I heard about infections

 

[Poppy]

He’s a grown man. You laid great options, he’ll make up his mind. I know you love him but that’s about all you can do.

 

[John]

Thanks…but trust me, I forget about my sympathy for him real quick when he gets yapping

 

[herrubermensch]

Love this kind of thread. Really made me hungry for brisket and meatloaf!

Getting a heavy chest workout in about an hour, then taking the wife out to dinner for upscale Italian. Been doing this way too much the past couple of weeks, so I’m back to being a fat-fuck at 230+lbs. Wish I weren’t such an easy gainer!

Cardio and abs tomorrow.

 

[Poppy]

upscale Italian

Hmmmmmm

 

[herrubermensch]

It’s a ridiculously pricey place, but EVERYTHING is perfect ALWAYS, and it has a great atmosphere, very romantic. In short you get what you pay for.