Life changes, a whole new chapter

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Well said … only a real man can understand this… I had a issue myself when my first daughter was born . I had to take a step back from work . I lost my job but at the end I felt so much more relief and stress off my shoulders. Got my business license.Working now for myself and have more time with the family . Like woodwalker1889 said mental health and family is more important then all the money in the world !!!
 
Such a great thread. It takes tremendous courage to do this, something I have never had. The legal world gives one a thousand things to obsess over and encourages you to make your self worth dependent exclusively on how successful you are. So you obsess more and more and more until it’s very difficult to think about or do anything else. I had to find a way to keep practicing, but NOT continue down that rabbit hole. And the more senior I have become, the more schedule flexibility I’ve had and the more people don’t expect me to do ALL the heavy lifting. Rather, I’m the guy they bring in only when there’s a problem or they need a senior dude because of the size or importance of the gig. But I still obsess and have feelings of guilt if I don’t produce multi-million dollar revenues–which is totally insane. So I look forward to the day when I have the courage to leave it all behind and just go build my engines and race cars and hang at the track. Congratulations for having the courage to re-set long before retirement.
 
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Are you federal? If so… dump as much as possible into your tsp. That’s helped me tremendously. Taking this contractor gig… I haven’t touched it…yet.

Not telling you your business. It worked for me.
 
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I’m taking ten days off work but it’s involuntary daughter tested positive for Covid and it’s mandatory for me to have to do
This. I will make the best of it I
Guess. She is having to go
To
The ER cause it’s fucked her up
So bad please send out prayers for her. I can’t sleep and have been offline for a few days but checking in now with my UG family
 
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