So sorry to hear about your troubles. But if you have to move and have never checked out New Mexico, I highly recommend it. Albuquerque is very cool, great restaurants and vibe with UofM there, good music, and, of course, it’s Breaking Bad town, so that’s cool. But some of the small localities are in absolutely gorgeous areas (like Star Wars in the background when the sun sets and the moon is already rising!) and are a lot of fun. I often think about retiring to one of those small towns, getting out of the rat race. In any event, good luck with everything.