Yeah hitting anyone isn’t the answer. I always see all the chicks on social media posting things like… get rid of toxic people in your life, and you know they are talking about dudes, but that shit goes both ways. I’m waiting for guys to start loading up on them. I just read and don’t even like the stuff I read as far as double tapping it. Hey man I love my wife too and would like nothing more than to make it work. Worst part is I am physically super duper attracted to her. Hottest woman on the planet in my eyes. I’m counting myself lucky I was with her at all honestly. Just do what you can brother to make it work, then if it does come to pass, you did what you could and can walk away with a clear head knowing that. Sadly, this shit gets easier the more divorces you go through, not that I condone it. I would echo what you already said though… Put one foot in front of the other…You’ll get there.