Don’t get your panties in a wad, I just said what I would do if it were me. And usually from my experience if my partner didn’t support something I was doing that was causing home issues there would likely be other underlying problems with the relationship. Coming off that sensitive reeks of pussywhipped to me. I don’t know his situation nor am I encouraging him to leave is wife. Maybe she is giving him shit for gear use because she thinks it is unsafe, which most people do. Is that why she is upset about it? If that’s the case i would explain to her that it’s not what people make it out to be. Steroids get a bad rep.
This isn’t towards cluster. It seems most think saving the home is the utmost priority. There are certain situations where it isn’t. Sometimes it is best to cut things off before you waste more of your life with someone that you aren’t all that happy with. I stuck with a marriage for years longer than I should have trying to hold on for the kids when I was better cutting it off sooner. All it did was waste those years of my life and time is something you don’t get back. Time is the most valuable commodity and it is best spent being happy. So for me coming out of a 7 year marriage, I am quick to find dealbreakers with women to avoid my time being wasted.