Fucking Divorce Sucks
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Some states are worse than others. Virginia is horrific for husbands. Presumptive alimony at a level that maintains the ex’s lifestyle. Plus one half of everything, at least.
I’m not a vet, but I understand and have experienced trauma that stays with you. Totally resonates with me, your description of working out in the dark and spontaneously crying. As we all know too well, the weight room is where we go to handle shit, to deal with it. It’s cathartic. Nothing better than focusing on the super simple task of getting the weight up. Something really comforting in THAT being the ONLY thing you care about in that moment.
Just did a session like that now. After getting my ass handed to me during 10 rds of jitz today, I did a little fight gone bad.
3 min rd 1 min off for 5 rds
Ski erg
Assault bike
Rower
Switch the brain off and grind it out
3 min rd 1 min off for 5 rds
Ski erg
Assault bike
Rower
Switch the brain off and grind it out
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Bigmurph6
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Sorry brother I just got back on
You know and I know many others do also that’s honestly why I feel comfortable. No man wants to admit his short cummings but I trust my brothers at ugmuscle and sister’s to honestly understand we have all been through the shitter at one time or another and if they haven’t hopefully when it does this will help in some way.
Much respect as always brother
You know and I know many others do also that’s honestly why I feel comfortable. No man wants to admit his short cummings but I trust my brothers at ugmuscle and sister’s to honestly understand we have all been through the shitter at one time or another and if they haven’t hopefully when it does this will help in some way.
Much respect as always brother
Bigmurph6
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Nowadays it seems like men end up losing 100% after all the money paid out after the original half split. I really wish that this would become a topic I believe that the divorce rate is crazy and I believe that this would help slow it down making it easier by requiring a prenuptial agreement and stopping lifetime alimony payments.
Bigmurph6
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That’s all crazy to me I believe that a man and a women should leave with there money at that point and do the split 50/50 or have a prenuptial.
No one should receive any payments from either party. Not for years or for life.
I believe that once the relationship is over its over unless children are involved then child support is needed but not anywhere near the levels some men and women get they are out there living off the child support better than alot of the people paying it are living that’s very unfair in my opinion.
No one should receive any payments from either party. Not for years or for life.
I believe that once the relationship is over its over unless children are involved then child support is needed but not anywhere near the levels some men and women get they are out there living off the child support better than alot of the people paying it are living that’s very unfair in my opinion.
Bigmurph6
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Hey brother no one at ugmuscle is ever alone were all here to help each other if someone is here for other reasons they usually don’t stay long.
I have actually been accused of rape before so I can relate. It was nonsense the girl was on drugs and said it because she thought she wouldn’t get introuble for the dope she had they took her to the hospital did a rape kit and of course it showed no sexual contact.
Thank God I didn’t get arrested or it would be on my record even though it was a complete farse.
The world is a crazy place this happened 20+ yrs ago when I was doing drugs a horrible time and horrible things like this happened.
Fucked up that your ex would take it that far I mean that’s way to far I pray that you get exonerated because no one shows any love to anyone with a charge like that you would need protective custody. That’s really bad because the child is right before the age were possibly they might have been able to even ask her about it shits crazy im baffled about it because anyone who says that and its not true should go to prison forever
I have actually been accused of rape before so I can relate. It was nonsense the girl was on drugs and said it because she thought she wouldn’t get introuble for the dope she had they took her to the hospital did a rape kit and of course it showed no sexual contact.
Thank God I didn’t get arrested or it would be on my record even though it was a complete farse.
The world is a crazy place this happened 20+ yrs ago when I was doing drugs a horrible time and horrible things like this happened.
Fucked up that your ex would take it that far I mean that’s way to far I pray that you get exonerated because no one shows any love to anyone with a charge like that you would need protective custody. That’s really bad because the child is right before the age were possibly they might have been able to even ask her about it shits crazy im baffled about it because anyone who says that and its not true should go to prison forever
Shit, going threw the same thing except im asking for it. Wife refused to work the last 4 years and alimony is insane, ontop of child support. Lawyer told me i stand no chance of custody since iv been deploying for 5 years straight. Also splitting retirement and tsp. Stay strong, i hope your doing ok.
DarthSocrates
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Thank you for sharing that Bigmurph. I am not saying I know where you are coming from, but my mind races, I can’t sleep, hard to focus. I get anxiety pretty easy and right now it is killing me.
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