I think some of it has to do with how a lot of kids are raised by the Internet now as well. Case in point, my two older daughters (25, 21) are normal, they didn’t have phones when they were in middle school, they didn’t lock themselves in their rooms and watch weird shit on YouTube. Our youngest (13) is coddled by mom for being the baby and does all that weird shit, and she’s socially awkward, spoiled by mom, still throws weird tantrums like a toddler. No sports, we’ve tried, no interest in them, so no teamwork skills either. Just a bi polar socially awkward hot mess just starting her lady shit… fml, thank god she’s the last