I understand what you are saying. Most would say, the difference is gear is used once your lifting and diet has been dialed in. It’s an accessory not the main source.
However, I am actually excited to hear about your journey. The post bypass diet is one that will be interesting to follow along with in regards to gear and gains. Sounds like LOTS of small meals.
I’m not terribly familiar with the diet restrictions, but if I’m recalling correctly you can’t process more than a small amount of food at a time. Even then, the daily macro allotments is still pretty small is it not? Compared to most of us trying to build muscle eating 250g of protein a day.
I’m excited you’re here. Looking forward to helping in your journey. You’re in a good place to grow in knowledge and then grow in size safely while staying healthy.