Geek’s Test is Best Recomp

[NeuroRN]

It’s called ethical polyamory… at least that’s what I think it’s called.

 

[anabolic_geek]

Correct!

 

[anabolic_geek]

Everything is above board and everyone involved is aware of what’s going on. It’s pretty dope. My fiancée is pretty good friends with at least one of my partners

 

[John]

Hmmmm,definitely not what I was gonna call it.And I dont think its “dope”,but who asked me.

 

[anabolic_geek]

what’s ethical about it.

The honesty part. Everyone involved is aware of the nature of the relationships and in some cases my fiancée has been really good friends with my partners. Often times my partners will also have multiple other partners in this sort of arrangement.

 

[John]

I figured that out,hence why I edited it out, before you answered.

 

[anabolic_geek]

Whoops!

 

[John]

To much risk involved,all the variety of people,having sex with another variety of people,how can you be 100% their all using protection? If your having sex with many different people,then odds are there having sex with a variety of people,and on an on an on…

 

[anabolic_geek]

@John it’s a matter of trust. There’s a concept in the community called ‘fluid bonding’. Typically, polyamorists limit their unprotected sex to their nesting mate or primary ‘polycule’. In order to proceed with fluid bonding the policy is usually everyone that would be fluid bonded is tested. It’s a pain, so fluid bonding with new people doesn’t happen often.

 

[John]

Copy that.

 

[JLee]

Lol! I couldn’t do it. I have a hard enough time trying to please one person!

 

[anabolic_geek]

@JLee That’s the neat thing about poly actually: unlike monogamous relationships, there isn’t a baked in expectation that ONE person will fulfill all your needs. As a result it’s much more laid back

 

[Dirtnasty]

I could never do it. But If it works for others have at it.

 

[Rusty]

I’m on board with you @JLee plus I’m just way too old fashioned. I have an open mind @anabolic_geek so I am happy for you. I would just feel sick to my stomach thinking about personally being in that situation. Back in the day we were single and had sex with a different girl every night if I could so I am just as much of a slut lol. Now that I am married my old school ways I learned as a child have me settled down and happy with just trying to keep one happy lol.

 

[anabolic_geek]

See i totally get that. Thing is for me: I never had the opportunity to be that guy until recently. As my name implies, when I was growing up I was a fucking geek — wasn’t really popular in school or the military, fat and out of shape and socially maladapted. Obviously I’m doing much better these days, but the chance to “sow those wild oats” just wasn’t there. I just didn’t have the money, gumption or social skills.

 

[Rusty]

Well go get on that horse then big boy!!! Hahahaha. Just be careful

 

[JLee]

@Rusty I think of it alot like CrossFit. I don’t understand it, seems risky, but people do seem to enjoy it! Actually I can get what @anabolic_geek does but CrossFit??? Seriously what’s up with those people!

 

[Rusty]

Hahahaahah. I did CrossFit for about half a year. Ya. Wayyyy out there!!! No desire to go back to it

 

[anabolic_geek]

Personally I think there’s a certain group of exercisers that equate more with better when that isn’t necessarily the case. Also I bet a big masochistic streak.

 

[anabolic_geek]

Today’s Training​

Quad focused lower body day​

Did this earlier but forgot to log ig.